I 100% agree with Mizeliah.
I'm living in a caribbean country with my husband, we are haitians and I will never trade him for someone else. but when it comes to romance, he only shows it in BED. Its only a few of us (haitians) who married to their own in the country.
My observation is that we, ladies have the same problem (the men treat us with no respect, they always busy, can't find time us) while those who married other race, their wives are enjoying their lives.
I believe its not a psychological problem, it has to do with our culture.
I Remember studied haitians that are seeing more than one women, the one they are going to marry to, they'll call her "my preference" visiting her once a week, especially on Sundays afternoon.
And spending most of their times with the other girls.
When they are lucky to marry to you before they got themselve into trouble with any of the girls, you can't expect better.
And sad to say, they believe that they treat right.
For those who married the other race, they have to treat the women as their culture.
Its the same way when you go to another country, you have to adjust yourself to the country's rules and regulations.
That the main reason they treat others better than us. Forgive them.